Just use the " : " in the name of the object, and <u> to underline (but I think that's not necessary in UML2). Here's an example:
left to right direction
object "newPatient:Patient" as p2 {
id : String = "38-545-137"
name = John Doe
gender: Gender = male
}
object "checkAcct:Account" as checkAcct <<interface>>
object "<u>newPatient:</u>" as p
note right
Underlining of instances
is old (UML 1.0)?
end note
object ":Customer" as c