Hi,
this looks similar to this request http://forum.plantuml.net/8574/how-to-draw-only-some-classes-of-an-included-plantuml-file.
IMHO, this is currently not possible the way you were thinking of. Once you define a class it will be visible.
As a solution, wou would need to wrap your elements into macros, which you can put into single files. These files you include and call those defined macros to "initialize" the elements and connect them afterwards.
If you want a working example please send a PN with your email address. I will provide you a zip file with a component diagram that will help you to get the idea.
BR,
Michael